Participants of ALLATRA International Public Movement Almira and Victoria from Almaty (Kazakhstan) within the framework of the project “NO TO VIOLENCE IN THE FAMILY AND SOCIETY” share their understandings that the vector of development of the whole society depends on everyone.
We need to be a Humans in the true meaning of this word, to live according to our conscience and create conditions to let inner openness and a desire to be better than yesterday.
It’s necessary to become people in the true meaning of this word and to respect each other. The majority wants to live in creative society, in love and mutual respect. What can everyone do for this? It is necessary not to be silent, to unite and act, launching a chain of good deeds. It is important to revive human values.
Our tomorrow depends on each of us.
Change yourself and many things will change around you!
International social project of a new format “NO TO VIOLENCE IN THE FAMILY AND SOCIETY”:
Film "THE STORY OF MY SLAVERY":
Almira: Hello, My name is Almira.
Victoria: Hello, my name is Victoria. We are participants of ALLATRA International Public Movement from Almaty, Kazakhstan.
Almira: Today we would like to share with you our perception, so to say, our attitude, our standpoint after watching the video “The Story of My Slavery” with participation of Liza Shilkova. I have watched this film more than once, but you know, at the very beginning, not even at the very beginning, but after watching it for the first time, I noticed the following thoughts from consciousness. I thought, “Well, Liza shouldn’t have stayed in this hell for such a long time. After all, she could get up and leave. What can be easier? Just not accept this, get up and leave.”
And right here, having observed the work of consciousness, I understood that its reasoning was stereotypical: criticism and judgment. That’s the kind of reaction my consciousness generated initially. And frankly speaking, I just felt uncomfortable with the fact that I had such a reaction. This is despite the fact that I work on myself every day, and still, my reaction was stereotypical. I asked myself, “Why did such a reaction arise?” And I got the answer: because I myself had been, if not in the same, but still in a similar situation. Meaning, in my family, I had been in a situation where there was tyranny on the part of my own husband (ex-husband). And my reaction was such that at some point in time I didn’t accept this tyranny, stood up and left. I noted that Liza was in such a, you know, kind of long-lasting state of violation of her rights and interests. Well, I’m now speaking as a lawyer. Why?
Because in my experience, more than once there have also been cases when I encountered stories of women who were staying in such a continuous state of violation of their rights. What did it consist of? These women were forced to endure tyranny in their husbands’ families and on the part of their own spouses. But as a rule, no matter how long it lasted, the result was predictable: in any case, the family would break up, and the women would remain without support. ‘Without any support’ means they had neither material nor moral support. And they were forced to survive somehow. And to be honest, this is the reality of our present time, this is the reality in which our society lives. In any case, I will talk about the reality here, in Kazakhstan.
No religion speaks in favour of divorces or supports them. That is, a divorce is a sin, you must endure, you must be humble, you must, must, must… You have obligations towards everyone and everywhere: towards society, towards your husband, towards your family. Whereas women's rights are not really taken into account.
In this story, the problem of the entire society exactly becomes exposed. I believe that a woman who ceases to be a woman and becomes an object that is simply used in all respects: she gives birth to children, she cooks, she nurses, she cleans, she even manages to work. Just like Liza, what an enormous physical labour she endured! She was so depressed morally that she didn’t even see any other destiny except serving.
Victoria: Serving consciousness that dominates in a man, in a husband, that dominates and wants to have power over a woman. Because, as it was already said in the programmes with Igor Mikhailovich, a man wants to dominate, it’s his consciousness that wants to dominate over that which is inside a woman.
Victoria: Over that power which is in a woman. Now we have the Knowledge, there are such wonderful programmes with the participation of Igor Mikhailovich Danilov, there is the book “AllatRa”, there is the programme “Consciousness and Personality”, which give an understanding of who we really are, what we came here for, why we live here, and what we are here for. Already realising that it’s necessary to live precisely for the soul, to live as a Human in the true meaning of this word and that ...
Almira: ... and how in reality everything is distorted...
Victoria: Yes. How distorted the concept of love is, how distorted…
Almira: ...the concept of service, the concept of love, the concept of essence, let’s say of a man himself, that is, what his essence is in reality…
Victoria: And everyone should understand that a woman is a woman, she shouldn’t forget that she’s a woman, that she brings love to this world, that this is her main task, her main task in this world.
Almira: In fact, every woman in her essence wants to be a woman. Well, every woman, just ask any woman, and each of them simply wants to be a woman. She wants to be loved, she wants to be cared about, she wants to be treated really like a woman.
Victoria: Well, everyone actually wants to be loved, they want to be treated well.
Almira: She wants to be treated like a woman.
Victoria: Everyone actually wants to be loved, everyone wants to be treated well. Yet, do people themselves want to love? Do people themselves want to be treated well? Are people themselves ready to give that which they have inside so that there would be more love in the world? So that we all would become not consumers, as all people currently are in this consumer society, but so that we all would become people in the true meaning of this word, and so that we could give this love to one another.
Almira: And what we heard in the programme, after all, it’s not just a characteristic of a single case of tyranny over a particular human, over a woman. This is also… you know what the me ssage is, the question to the society: “Why is the society so indifferent?” After all, the question that arises is more global. In general, about the state of the society, its spiritual and moral level of development today. This indicates that we are losing ethics, spirituality and morality to such an extent that such a humanity, in which we are living today, simply has no future. But in fact, if we speak up about it, we will show even by our example that we don’t want to live in such a society. We want to bring love, light and harmony. If each of us does this, even in such a way, by openly expressing our attitude towards such situations, the incidents that Lisa is talking about, this will already be a huge contribution to changes in our society. Our society, yes, its character, its attitude begins with a small step. How a person himself or herself behaves towards those negative manifestations in which society exists today. What his or her personal attitude is. It is on this personal attitude that the vector of development of the whole society depends, because society is each of us individually, it’s all of us together and each of us individually. And in this programme, the idea of the society’s indifference and lack of concern, just for me personally, is the key point. Well, you know, it's not as bad as it seems. Why? Because when such a problem arises, we understand that it really exists, and we know the way and follow the path that will help us change this society.
That is, even the fact that today we are participants of ALLATRA International Public Movement and are taking part in the projects that are implemented on this platform today, we are already contributing to helping the society. I personally will do my best to let this inner openness and desire to be better than you were yesterday manifest in every person, to be better today than you were yesterday.
As a practicing lawyer, I meet with people precisely on matters in dispute. They come and argue, different situations happen, and recently there have been a lot of cases, and quite frequently when conflicts and disputes arise specifically in families: conflicts between children, between parents and children, between a brother and a sister, a wife and a husband, and so on. And you know, I’ve started noticing that exactly being in this work, both in my inner work and in the movement, being in all this, when you listen to so many life vlogs, when you listen to the programmes with Igor Mikhailovich Danilov, when you read the books, you constantly read these books, in conversations with people, one way or another you start to tell about what is true, about the truth that is in the books by Anastasia Novykh. It happens naturally, you start talking about it one way or another. People change. People start pondering this. Our message will find its addressee, it will find the Personality that is looking for it, but cannot find. The Personality that will respond and join the ranks of those people who want to build a truly creative, good society today. The only society that has the right to exist, and should live, should be formed, should exist.
Victoria: Right. You shouldn't be afraid of consciousness, you shouldn't listen to it when it says, “Well, what will happen if I say a few words. Nothing will happen.” It will happen! Firstly, it will happen in you personally, because you will feel, because you are not silent, you are already doing something, you are already talking about it. And it will happen in society, because people will hear it, and this positive ezoosmos will start, and this chain of the good will spread. It is already spreading, there is already ALLATRA International Public Movement as an example of that society, an open society which anyone can enter with their inner understanding and sincere desire to bring something good, something useful to all people on earth. Because there is knowledge, there is something to rely on, there are good people. Even… that Universal Grain project, how many people are saying that love and kindness unite us. Everyone talks about it because they want to live in the society of love, kindness and understanding. Why don't we live in such a society? We can build it, can't we? Everyone should remember that there is a soul inside, that there is God, that there is this kindness and love. What is God? God is love. Love is in each of us, it’s impossible to measure it, it’s impossible to measure it in any way, to touch it or something else. It can only be felt inside everyone, and everyone does feel it. And it seems there is no single person who denies the existence of love and kindness because it's impossible to deny it. It is just there.
Almira: And you understand that such a society can be built, and we are already starting to build it. And every day there are more and more of us. And the programme “The Story of My Slavery” so openly showed the flaws that exist in the society. In addition to the flaws in the family. Because what is a family? A family is a society, a society is a family, it begins with a family. Many thanks that, like a boil, it has opened up these rotting things in the society and has shown that today it still exists in such a state. However, we all have a very big potential to make the society different. To build that very true society we should have on this Earth. It’s impossible to close up Love, it’s impossible to hold back an Angel. If It manifests Itself, it’s important to help It get manifested even more, to a greater extent. And everyone has such an opportunity. If a person has the Knowledge, everyone joins in the Knowledge, because when you see even one book by Anastasia Novykh, you unwittingly get drawn to it. Watching one of the videos, you involuntarily start to continue watching, because there's a message from the Spiritual World in every action. And everyone can catch it. The main thing is not to let consciousness erase those moments of the surge, it’s important to multiply them.
Victoria: Nowadays, in our society there is such a format - we create families; in the past, people used to live in communities, and now we live in families. But when every person's family, or at least one person, has this understanding of all these processes, that many people are controlled by consciousness, one can understand, one can simply avoid running into conflicts, one can somehow skip certain questions and tough issues. When a person shows by his example how it is truly possible to live in love - that means a lot. This is really true when you yourself come as a mature being to God, you get saved, and thousands get saved around you - this is inevitable.
Almira: This, I believe, is the goal of every person - to change oneself, and much will change around you. We wish everyone love, happiness and harmony. We wish everyone great insights in every day, and we wish everyone great success in working on themselves in every day. Let it be hard work, but it is rewarding, and we wish everyone to join hands and walk this beautiful, rewarding path to God with only one purpose --- to come home. Let all of us succeed. Thank you all.
Victoria: Let's all love and respect each other. Thank you.