Before, I did not think about flirting in terms of magic. It seemed like a kind of harmless game in which no one would suffer and everyone gets a benefit for oneself. But is this really so? And is flirting so harmless?
I began to look further into this issue and came across the fact that flirting is pure magic. Moreover, only the system of animal mind benefits from this action, but not a woman and not even a man! So what to do, how to abandon such a pernicious and sweet habit of consciousness? Is female magic really that harmless and what are its consequences in a person's life? What is in fact a love spell? On the path of self-discovery one must be honest with oneself and learn to see the hidden work of consciousness.
Today I will share with you my understandings on this subject after watching the programme “Consciousness and Personality. From the Inevitably dead to the Eternally alive"
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Flirting and magic! Women’s little tricks or the secret schemes of consciousness.
Hi everyone! I would like to share my new insights and understandings after watching the programme “Consciousness and Personality. From the inevitably dead to the eternally Alive”. One of my insights was regarding magic. There is a moment when Tanya mentions that women are engaged in magic, divination and so on. This aspect was unclear to me. I thought “Yeah, right, I’ve heard some women bewitch, manipulate men so they come back home”, but I have never thought what else magic could be. So, I began analyzing one incident.
It all actually started with a compliment, when I noticed that sometimes I compliment people so as to influence them. Because a compliment… While previously, it was done unconsciously, later I started doing it consciously when I want to get something from a person. Well, not me, but my consciousness, it bursts with compliments like… So, from that the rest of the understanding developed further. I started to dig into deeper and deeper and I unearthed such a thing as flirting.
Yes, and you know, it was in fact very interesting. It turned out that flirting is nothing else but true magic. I am talking about flirting with the male sex specifically. Generally, it is hard for me to talk about that. One girl (I thank her for her help) and I, we both started to look further into the question. Flirting. So what is happening during the flirting? It is actually a hunt of the consciousness and the system for the Allat powers.
When I flirt, I resort to all those women’s little tricks. I mean I wish to get the attention of another man, right? Why do I need the attention of another man? To have power over him, to manipulate him, to maintain my competitive edge against other females, to put this man under my heel and get my self-satisfaction from it.
It may seem that it is not so bad, right? However, during the flirting many little things happen. For example, it starts with a little laughing and such. I know for sure What and How to say to a man in order to attract his attention. Next, I gain his attention and a game begins: either I put him on a short leash and pull him in, or vice versa, I let him loose. What is more, both play this game. You know, when I started to analyze this subject deeper and deeper (by the way, I am married), suddenly, I felt very confused. It turns out that when I play this game I’m literally involved in magic. I make every effort, spin the Left Essence of the other man. I feel euphoric from my self-importance: how I managed to stand out so that this very man chose me.
However, later I noticed that my consciousness started saying such things to me: “This is not a fair victory”. Yes, it was not enough for the system and it tells me: “Olya, it is not a fair victory. You were following the rules of this game, you were doing something to get his attention. You were telling him how cool he was, or were winking at him, laughing at his stupid little jokes. You singled him out from the crowd of the other males, just him”. Then it prompts this thought: “Let’s see what happens if we don’t react to him and turn on the ‘ice lady’. What will he do?” Because we need the confirmation of our self-importance to make sure that this man would be ours anyway, even without any efforts from our side. And this was the second trap for it’s just the same game again.
When I figured out this game and marked those things I decided to dig even deeper: what was the starting point of flirting? There is a group of us and there are both men and women in it. As of today, I have discovered that everything starts with competition. A new girl joined our group and men are courting her, so this competitive fight “who is better” started. Here is where it began. Everything came into play, these so-called charms.
When we were analyzing this pattern, the most unpleasant part was that I have a husband. And I do not need this other man on whom I waste my Allat powers in magic. I mean I, as a woman, do not need him.
Let's say if I were single. For instance, there is an object, I look at it and I want something from it … My Animal nature wishes to create family with this object, build a home, have sex, right? But the man I am flirting with doesn’t fall under any of those descriptions. I want neither of these from him, you see?
So, it turns out that I am wasting my Allat powers on some toys from my consciousness and the system. Literally, I am taking a shovel and digging a grave for myself, because I’m flirting. I utilize little magical tricks and exchange my Life on them, instead of saving these powers and directing then where I should. All because of some ordinary pridefulness, competition and proving myself the alpha-female. And in general, from all that it’s like... So, when I finally realized all this… And I have a husband, the man I love. Instead of putting my efforts into being beautiful for him, I do it for some strangers that I don’t care for... and I am (again, my consciousness is) only looking to gain their attention, I do not need anything from them in a physical sense.
And when they were speaking about this magic and that it is filth, when all this became clear, I suddenly felt, so to say, this filth inside, as if it stuck to me, and I wanted to shake it off somehow as quickly as possible. I realized that this very magic happens when a woman is fighting for the attention of a man by all means possible to get a proof that she is the best, to dominate and manipulate him. And this man is dancing to her tune like a jerk, while she believes it makes her cool. It's all really very ... It is so disgusting. That's really disgusting.
When we started to analyze deeper, we suddenly discovered that there is the same problem with the body. Yes, I wish to have a beautiful body. Why? To be competitive, to get, well, to be on top of that animal chain. Hey, I am that alpha-female, everyone looks up to At the same time, we decided to use such arguments as: that’s it, the war has been won by the Animal nature. I have a husband, a baby (well, I do not have one, but that girl has a baby), baby potential has been fulfilled; what else do you need. That’s it. These games are useless even from the point of view of primary consciousness. It is far too energy consuming to be running like a donkey after the carrot that is running away all the time, because it’s attached to to you. And you are constantly chasing it in order to be best of the best of the best. But what for? That’s it. You well, I, have it all already. That’s it, I don’t need it. It is time to lay down the weapons. I do not need to be the best of the best; I won my trophy already. And you know, it was so funny when I finally realized that I do not need it anymore.
I had two separate insights. One was, you know, when I go shopping and I hear inside: “Oh, look at this dress, we’ll put it on, look at this skirt…” And I put forward this counter-argument to my consciousness: it is over, the weapons are laid down. And all of a sudden, voila, all interest is completely gone. It is like “What? No need to dress up to go to the dance club anymore? No short skirts or heavy make-up?” “No, the weapons were laid down. We already have a husband, why would we need someone else?” Well, actually there is no need, no necessity at all. And it’s like: “Oh, come on! It’s not even fun to go shopping any more.”
The second insight. By the way, the second one got completely erased, I do not even remember what I wanted to say. Ah, I remember. The second insight was when I told my consciousness that we stop doing it – no more flirting, no more little laughs; we treat a man as a Personality. As we know, a Personality has no gender, it is not a male or a female, it is a Spirit. We treat a person as a Personality. And a picture came of my consciousness holding onto the flirting and saying, “I am not giving it up to you”. I was observing it and I was like: what???- “Here, take anything you want, but I am not giving you the flirting”. Well, that was kind of crazy.
But I know who is in charge. Frankly speaking, I have not had a chance to go to some event where there are men and to check how well this pattern has been worked through. But as soon as I get a chance I will be observing everything that is going on in me, in my head. I will share with you how my understanding helped me with all this. And how, in general, whether all these insights and reflections. that I had, got implemented into my life.
You know, the more I watch the programme, the clearer some things have become, and the more I want to understand myself and the schemes of the Animal nature and the system. And it works. And I want to understand more. The more of such insights I receive, the more of this inner freedom I feel, of.. that. It becomes clearer; some aspects become clearer, ones I could not see before.
And now, when these patterns have been examined, you see how the system mocks at you and pumps your energy by injecting euphoria through the feeling of self-importance. Although the self-importance is, actually, not yours, but again that of your consciousness, primary consciousness to be exact. That’s when you do not wish to waste it in vain at all.
Well, these are my insights and understandings of today. Remember to send your own understandings; We are looking forward to them. Every insight is important. By the way, when I started watching the insights of the other people, my consciousness disliked it terribly; it was like “They are seizing my popularity. Now someone will say this before you, and that’s it”.
Now I understand why it was afraid. Because really, guys, your insights are very important and needed for the reason that when guys and girls share them, I see myself in all of them. It becomes easier for me, because my consciousness cannot argue: “Only you have it”. It is either shameful or it is pridefulness.
And some of their experience is my experience too, and it helps me figure out some patterns and see, for example, something I didn’t see before. Therefore, guys, all your feedback is very important and needed, be sure to send it! See you soon!
Bye!